雖然這本書是教男生如何追女仔,不過裡面內容也可以供女生參考喔~
摘抄一點書後的總結~
Ten surefire ways to increase your popularity (Chapter
4):
1. Always be seen in the company of a person of the
opposite sex.
2. (Women) Get cosmetic surgery or use makeup and
clothing to alter peoples’ perception of your shape. (Men)
Wear platform shoes and bulkier clothing up top.
3. Buy showy high status objects (cars, houses, etc.),
jewelry, clothing, etc.
4. Join the “in” crowd, club, business, or organization.
5. Always appear upbeat, happy, and friendly to everybody.
6. Never let people see you think or engage in planning.
7. Converse about “in” topics, fashionable pastimes, or
people.
8. Never say anything negative about others.
9. Never disagree with anyone or say anything that goes
against popular thought.
10. If you are in the limelight, get a bulletproof vest. Once
you get popular, people will take a shot at you. Get ready
for their rumors or insults.
Six good indications that a person likes you (Chapter 8):
1. The person calls you on the telephone just to say “hi.”
2. The person touches your shoulder, holds your hand, etc.
3. The person walks in step with you and mimics your body
language.
4. The person laughs at all your weak jokes as if all your
jokes are funny, even though you don’t think your jokes
are so funny.
5. The person always invites you.
6. The person sends you gifts other than greetings cards.
Seven surefire ways to survive heartbreak (Chapters 15
and 17):
1. Don’t get your hopes up.
2. Don’t go on a foolish mission, if you know it’s going to
be foolish
3. If she hurts you, let go completely.
4. Put things in perspective. Try to remember someone you
fell in love with and in your mind compare your feelings
for her with your feelings for the girl who broke your
heart.
5. Tell yourself, “She's not-worth it!”
6. Tell yourself, “The timing isn't right.” She's too caught
up in her own situation so it’s a waste of energy to chase
her.
7. Tell yourself, “You can't really blame her; she's insane.”
Romantic Timetable (Chapter 16):
1. Woman gives hint to man.
2. Man takes hint and indicates his willingness.
3. Woman loves man, accommodates him, and is never late.
4. She’s always late, and out of time. Her peer group is
more important than the man.
5. Man joins Woman’s peer group or Woman joins Man’s
peer group.
6. Woman and Man both grow together and eventually steal
away from the group.
7. Marriage. Hanging around with married friends, other
couples.
8. First child. Woman pays more attention to child than to
the man.
9. Third year. Man is tempted to find a new woman. Magic
feeling is completely gone. Birth of new
understanding/relationship between Woman and Man.
10. Seventh year. Rules of new relationship are completely
understood.